Sexual health
Blue balls: what causes it, is it harmful, and how to relieve it
“Blue balls” is the slang name for an ache in the testicles after sexual arousal without ejaculation. It is real, common and usually harmless. Here is what causes it and how to ease it.
In short: Blue balls, known medically as epididymal hypertension, is a temporary ache or heaviness in the testicles after prolonged arousal without orgasm. Blood builds up in the genitals and takes time to drain. It is not harmful and usually settles within an hour or two. Severe, one-sided or persistent pain needs checking.
What causes blue balls?
During arousal, blood flows into the penis and testicles and the testicles draw up closer to the body. If arousal lasts a long time without ejaculation, the extra blood and pressure can cause a dull ache. The term “blue” refers to a slight bluish tinge that is rarely noticeable.
Symptoms
- Aching or heaviness in the testicles
- Mild discomfort in the groin or lower abdomen
- Symptoms start after prolonged arousal and fade as arousal subsides
Is it harmful?
No. Blue balls does not damage the testicles or affect fertility. It is also never a reason to pressure a partner into sexual activity. Discomfort settles on its own.
How to relieve blue balls
- Wait it out: the ache usually fades within an hour or two.
- Distract yourself and let arousal subside naturally.
- Exercise or walk to redirect blood flow.
- A cool shower or cold pack wrapped in cloth can help.
- Ejaculation, through masturbation, relieves pressure quickly for some men.
- Supportive underwear may ease the heaviness.
When it is not blue balls
See an appropriately registered medical professional or emergency care if you have:
- Sudden, severe pain, especially in one testicle (possible torsion, an emergency)
- Swelling, redness or warmth
- Fever or pain when urinating
- A lump in the testicle
- Pain that lasts more than a few hours or keeps recurring without arousal
Frequent discomfort
If you regularly have pelvic or testicle discomfort, pelvic floor tension may play a role. See pelvic floor dysfunction in men.
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If you have questions about arousal, ejaculation or pelvic discomfort, our naturopaths offer a discreet, non-judgemental consultation.
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Answer these honestly before you try anything new or book. They help you describe what is happening and get more from your first consultation.
- Do you have pain, swelling, redness or itching in the genital area?
- Have you noticed discharge, sores, a lump or blood in your urine or semen?
- Do you have a fever or feel generally unwell?
- Has this lasted more than a few days, or keep coming back?
- Is it affecting your sex life, sleep or confidence?
A yes to questions two or three, or sudden severe pain, means you should see an appropriately registered medical professional promptly. For recurring or lifestyle-related concerns, a naturopath can help with natural support alongside medical care.
What happens at your first consultation
- Walk in or book online, call +27 10 205 9855 or WhatsApp +27 81 823 1313. In Gauteng, walk in at 199 Vanessa Street, Buccleuch, Sandton, where parking is available. Outside Gauteng, choose a confidential phone or video consultation. Enquiries are answered 24/7.
- Talk privately with a naturopath about your symptoms, health history, lifestyle and goals.
- Receive a personalised natural plan, with any remedy costs confirmed upfront.
- Follow up in person or remotely so your progress is reviewed and your plan adjusted.
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Our naturopaths use natural remedies and lifestyle support, and always check your health history and current medicines first. If anything needs medical attention we tell you honestly and refer you to an appropriately registered medical professional. Avoid unregistered “enhancement” products sold online or at markets, as SAHPRA has warned that some contain hidden ingredients.
Seek urgent medical care for chest pain, an erection lasting more than four hours, sudden weakness or other sudden symptoms.
Consultation price
A consultation is R2,500, in person or remote, and your naturopath confirms any further costs before you go ahead. See our mens clinic prices for details.
Frequently asked questions
Is blue balls real?
Yes. Epididymal hypertension is a real, temporary ache after prolonged arousal without ejaculation.
Is blue balls harmful?
No. It does not damage the testicles or affect fertility, and it settles on its own.
How long do blue balls last?
Usually less than an hour or two.
When is testicle pain not blue balls?
Sudden severe pain, swelling, fever, a lump or pain without arousal needs prompt medical assessment.
How much does a consultation cost?
A consultation is R2,500, and any remedy costs are confirmed with you before you go ahead.
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References and further reading
Reviewed by George Mulaudzi, Naturopath. This page is general information and does not replace a personal consultation. If you have chest pain, sudden symptoms or a medical emergency, seek urgent medical care.
