Premature ejaculation
The squeeze technique for premature ejaculation: a practical guide
The squeeze technique is one of the oldest and most widely recommended behavioural methods for premature ejaculation. It costs nothing, needs no products and can be learnt at home.
In short: The squeeze technique means stopping stimulation when you feel close to ejaculating and firmly squeezing the head of the penis, where it joins the shaft, for 10 to 20 seconds until the urge fades. Repeating this several times during practice trains you to recognise your arousal levels and delay ejaculation. Most men need several weeks of regular practice.
How the squeeze technique works
It interrupts the ejaculation reflex just before the point of no return. Over time you learn to recognise the feelings that come before ejaculation and gain more control over them.
Step by step: practising alone
- Choose a relaxed time with no rush
- Stimulate yourself until you feel you are at about 7 or 8 out of 10 arousal
- Stop and firmly squeeze the penis just below the head, thumb on the frenulum and two fingers on top
- Hold for 10 to 20 seconds until the urge to ejaculate passes; you may lose some firmness, which is normal
- Wait about 30 seconds, then start again
- Repeat three or four times before allowing yourself to ejaculate
Step by step: with a partner
Once you are confident alone, show your partner the grip. During foreplay or sex, signal when you are close, withdraw, and either of you can apply the squeeze. Then continue.
Common mistakes
- Waiting too long, past the point of no return
- Squeezing too lightly to have an effect, or so hard it hurts
- Practising only once in a while
- Treating it as a test rather than a learning process
How long does it take?
Many men notice more control within a few weeks. Practise three or four times a week for at least 6 to 8 weeks.
Combine it with other methods
The squeeze works well alongside the start-stop or edging technique, premature ejaculation exercises and breathing techniques.
When to get support
If PE has lasted for years or is causing tension in your relationship, our naturopaths can help with a personalised natural plan covering anxiety, the pelvic floor and lifestyle.
Why men choose our natural approach
Walk in or consult remotely
Walk in at Buccleuch, Sandton, with parking available, or consult by phone or video from anywhere in South Africa.
Natural and non-surgical
Herbal remedies and practical guidance, with no injections or surgery.
Faster appointments
Enquiries answered 24/7, with same-day appointments often available.
Transparent pricing
Consultations are R2,500, with any remedy costs confirmed before you commit.
Private self-check: 5 quick questions
Answer these honestly before you try anything new or book. They help you describe what is happening and get more from your first consultation.
- Do you usually ejaculate sooner than you or your partner would like?
- Has this always been the case, or did it start recently?
- Do you feel you have little or no control over when you ejaculate?
- Is it causing stress, avoidance or tension in your relationship?
- Do you also have trouble getting or keeping an erection?
A yes to questions one, three or four suggests a consultation would help. Problems that started recently, or that come with erection difficulties, are worth discussing early, because the cause often guides the most effective natural plan.
What happens at your first consultation
- Walk in or book online, call +27 10 205 9855 or WhatsApp +27 81 823 1313. In Gauteng, walk in at 199 Vanessa Street, Buccleuch, Sandton, where parking is available. Outside Gauteng, choose a confidential phone or video consultation. Enquiries are answered 24/7.
- Talk privately with a naturopath about your symptoms, health history, lifestyle and goals.
- Receive a personalised natural plan, with any remedy costs confirmed upfront.
- Follow up in person or remotely so your progress is reviewed and your plan adjusted.
Your health and safety
Our naturopaths use natural remedies and lifestyle support, and always check your health history and current medicines first. If anything needs medical attention we tell you honestly and refer you to an appropriately registered medical professional. Avoid unregistered “enhancement” products sold online or at markets, as SAHPRA has warned that some contain hidden ingredients.
Seek urgent medical care for chest pain, an erection lasting more than four hours, sudden weakness or other sudden symptoms.
Consultation price
A consultation is R2,500, in person or remote, and your naturopath confirms any further costs before you go ahead. See our mens clinic prices for details.
Frequently asked questions
Does the squeeze technique really work?
It helps many men gain control, especially when practised regularly over several weeks and combined with pelvic floor exercises.
Where do you squeeze for premature ejaculation?
Just below the head of the penis, with your thumb on the underside and two fingers on top.
How long should I squeeze?
Usually 10 to 20 seconds, until the urge to ejaculate passes.
Is the squeeze technique better than start-stop?
Both work in a similar way. Many men use a combination and choose whichever feels more natural.
How much does a consultation cost?
A consultation is R2,500, and any remedy costs are confirmed with you before you go ahead.
Book your consultation today
Walk in at our Sandton practice any time, day or night, or book ahead. Outside Gauteng? Book a remote consultation.
References and further reading
Reviewed by George Mulaudzi, Naturopath. This page is general information and does not replace a personal consultation. If you have chest pain, sudden symptoms or a medical emergency, seek urgent medical care.
